Happy new month! I don’t know why. But August feels like it’s going to be a month of truly beautiful moments – and positive chemicals. Maybe it is because the first piece of inspiration I bumped on the 1st of August was this psychologist summary note on how to produce positive (happy) chemicals.

Source: LinkedIn User
Is it bad to criticize?
Criticism is healthy as things sometimes get better as a result. However, whiles some people will take it positively, some prefer don’t. Regardless, I think that positive thinking should not be reduced to saying all the nice things for the sake of people pleasing. But yes, it is good to churn out positivity – it feels lightening when you take a breather and paraphrase that nasty comment or simply offer complements to other people to appreciate their efforts. It has been 2 weeks now of working very hard to be a positive persona. Before I say something, I have literally whispered to myself to stay positive. I have succeeded on some days and offered uplifting notes to those around me. But on others like this weekend where I decided to offer the benefit of doubt and see a random mechanic, things went very South and let’s just say I totally regretted why I did not go by my usual instincts of reaching out to my regular service provider first. Sometimes applying your instincts can save situations!
I would like to keep this post quite short and end by saying:
Yes, it is possible to become positivite or work in progress. And while living positively makes us feel better and the society a better place – it should not mean a full shutdown of our filters to letting everything sail. Saying the things people wish to hear in the way they wish to hear it often feels like positivity – but it may not be. Have deferring viewpoints is okay. What we must learn is how best to say hard or not so pleasant things with respect of the recipient’s human-side. Before you say something to anyone this month, ask yourself how would I feel if the same thing was said to me? Rework until it is palatable to you as the recipient – language, tone etc without losing original messaging – good or bad.
Until the next post, happy new month mastering simple acts of positivity while not letting it change who you are!





