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Reflections from World Cup 2026

by wakinyi July 17, 2026
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It feels like yesterday when I penned down a post regarding the continental extravaganza that was the Africa Cup of Nations. Thereafter, all eyes were set on the greatest tournament of them all – the FIFA 2026 World Cup summer games which began on 11th June and end this Sunday, 19th July. In many ways, the 2026 World Cup was expected to not only provide world class performance as usual – it was notably historical – for the first time it has featured 48 national teams compared to previous edition (s) of 32. The tournament has also been held in 3 host countries for the first time i.e. the North American territories of Mexico, Canada and USA.  Such an inter-countries hosting can bring about potential logistical quagmire if not well organized. A total of 104 matches were to be played showcasing tournament all-time favourites such as France, Argentina, Spain and England while introducing debutants such as Curacao, Cape Verde and Jordan out on a mission to raise their national flags in leaps and bounds.

With 102 games played as of today, I reflect on some of my most outstanding moments. That I have watched at least 75% of the games means there were many hours of otherwise regular sleep time vested given the huge time zone differences. Whether it was a good decision to give away that many hours is subject to debate. As one of the official broadcasters SuperSport has been saying, ‘everything can wait’. Because the world cup comes every 4 years and unlike continental tournaments, which I also enjoy very much, it allows us to interact with a good proportion of top league players across the world. For a person who doesn’t really follow club football, The World Cup has always been the place to experience these top ranked talents every 4 years – so you can imagine why vesting many hours in slightly over a month doesn’t feel wasteful. But more than that – and as is the expectation – every fixture presents a learning environment and opportunity to dig deeper into the history and politics behind nations – in one way or the other. You also get to appreciate individual players’ journey – and get a glimpse of what team sport mean to a nation’s pride.

Little Cape Verde gives tournament giants a run for their money

Until this tournament (I must confess), I did not know of countries like Curacao, for example, and little about Cape Verde except the fact that it is a small country to the Western side of our continent. Hence it was good to learn a few things about them – and their fighting spirit if pitch performances are anything to go by. Never judge a book by its cover could not be better explained than seeing it through the match between Cape Verde vs Spain and later vs Argentina for example. That Cape Verde managed to hold the top two FIFA ranked nations winless within the regulated time was a surprise. No predictions could have had these outcomes right, not even the football pundits. Cape Verde was eventually knocked out by Argentina in a thriller battle, but it left indelible memories that no walls of fame can erase. From a tourism perspective, I believe that this little country with a population of roughly 500,000 might also reap from their debut at this year’s tournament – talk of phenomenal advertisement cum no regrets investment when a country sends out it’s squad as the number one ambassador. Such are the kind of success stories that can only be birthed in big stages like the World Cup. At the time of writing this post, information online has it that Cape Verde’s impressive 40-year-old goalkeeper, Vozinha, might be getting a sign-up by a club in the USA following his outstanding saves at the World Cup.  “USA is not a big footballing nation so nothing fancy about playing there” might be the kind of reactions we get. But guess what, the world’s GOAT and billionaire athlete Lionel Messi plays in Miami. And if the US group stage matches were anything to go by – I personally think that their players’ lighting speed will be a force to reckon with in future tournaments should the country continue investing in football as they do the more traditionally US followed sports such as American football (NFL) and Basketball (NBA). Beside Vozinha, there are many other stories of new talent being scouted or poached following their tournament performances.

World Cup meets information era cum content flooding – good or bad?

Unlike previous editions where I was too young to properly follow matches or had limited outlets from which to access information, the 2026 World Cup has happened in what I would call a truly expansive information era.  Not that the 2022 tournament didn’t, not sure why I was not as vested at the time. I remember being quite proactive in 2018. This year’s edition is at a time when there is more than enough information available at the click of a button – talk of pre/post-match analysis, to AI generated clips or documentaries that bring viewers/readers up to speed with the (human) story behind each athlete and game. In short, a fan has pretty much good background knowledge to decide if/how to rally behind their preferred teams. But too much information readily available also means more cases of misinformation or disinformation. You can bump into content that is fake and intended to spread propaganda or fuel hate towards certain. And there are cases where legit images seem to be deepfakes because it is difficult to gauge what is right or not today. For example, I bumped on an image where Spanish teenage superstar Lamine Yamal (then a 5-month-old baby) is carried/being bathed by the global superstar and legendary player Lionel Messi. The pictures give the impression of a son-father banter aimed to gain public attention ahead of the big finale clash between Spain and Argentina. It was resounding to realize that these photos, originally shared by Lamine’s father in 2024, are real and were shot as part of a UNICEF charity campaign in 2007 in partnership with a Spanish sports media outlet. Lamine’s parents had entered and won a raffle to have their then toddler participate in a photoshoot with Barcelona’s players.  Who would have thought about a Messi (then 20 years old and described by the photographer as shy and had never held a baby)-Yamal coincidence nearly 19 years later? I first heard about Lamine by chance through an 8-year-old who follows him closely as do many other Gen Alphas and Zs. I kept wondering whether this was another Youtube sensation like I Show Speed and why he’d been featured in Coca Cola billboards a few weeks leading up to the World Cup tournament. At the time, I was more familiar with brands like Kylian Mbappe, Leonel Messi, Christiano Ronaldo, Neymar Jr, Harry Kane, Mo Salah, Sadio Mane and Achraf Hakimi. I knew very little about the likes of Erling Haaland, Vinny Jr and other young stars we have come to love or appreciate thanks to this tournament. So yes – World Cup season is an opportunity to not only experience the crème de la crème but have an idea of the multimillion signings that are now the current top fleet players.

The human-side of athletes, are the nerve-wrecking investments worth it?

Sometimes we question why elite sports are such a big business empire or why so much money would be invested in a single human-being and the extent to which even some clubs go as far as insuring the player’s most coveted assets – the foot. That is because from a fan lens, we do not necessarily see the bravery that a player puts on to excel in 90 minutes + each time. They basically let go of moral fear and throw their bodies out there to face opponents in the hopes that they can properly carry the dreams and hopes of their nations through the tournament and emerge victors. For example, one of the main injuries of this tournament occurred when Canada’s midfielder Ismael Kone suffered a major injury in a group match against Qatar. He underwent a surgery with reports indicating that it will take several months to fully recover. For spectator, this may sound like just another football injury because the society has normalized it, right? To a player, however, I think these moments are some of their most dreadful career nightmares, because history also has it that there are players who have had to let go or slow down their careers after suffering life changing injuries meaning. A physically fit body being a players’ most important asset – it goes without doubt that injury prospects influence if and how a player chooses to face an opponent, especially in games where the squad is generally known for too much physically or fouls. While from a fan lens we might think that a top-ranked player is performing below expectation in certain games, truth is there will always be underlying factors that affect how individuals show up.  This goes to say that even as we criticize how our national teams’ performances as disgraceful, shambolic and many other terms I have seen online – we have to learn how to do it in a respectful manner – because these are human beings like who sacrifice their own lives on the pitch to treat us to the kind of entertainment we often feel entitled to. Take for example what an excruciating injury could do in a severe head-on.

A finale orchestrated by History – Yamal vs Messi Clash

Credit: CBS Sports Golazo

As we gear up for the finale game, I am glad to have witnessed yet another World Cup tournament. There have been low and high moments, I still cannot believe that tournament number one favourites France were knocked out at the Semi-final, or that African giants Senegal bottled up a 2-0 lead in under 5 minutes, or that nearly all of the 9 African countries who qualified for the round of 32 ended up losing games in which they could have won.  And that England will not be getting anywhere close to the World Cup final when it seemed so close in under 5 minutes to regulated time during its semi-final game. Talk of split-second heart breaks and failed haramball – football spectating can kill by the way – consume with an open mind. Finally, who will forget Norway’s Viking row? Their fans simply brought on a magical cheering tradition that might live on the stadiums for a while.

And for the Spain-Argentina, or if you like Yamal-Messi aka ‘Son-Father’ champions clash on Sunday, may the best team of the pitch win! Because it is difficult having to choose between the outgoing legend and possibly the current/next generation’s legend.

July 17, 2026 0 comment
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Latest Continental Football Extravaganza

by wakinyi January 11, 2026
written by wakinyi

Since when are you a football fan? You watch football nowadays? I am surprised you have been keeping tabs of the tournament fixtures! Which team are your supporting? I hope you are also showing up in the stadium to cheer your teams. You also ‘play football’? Why do you get so happy when watching football? These are some of the reactions I have had to deal with in the recent past – by recent I mean since East Africa hosted the Confederation of African Football (CAF) organized 2024 African Nations Championship (CHAN). The tournament was originally planned to be hosted in 2024 but was pushed forward and played between 3rd to 25th August 2025 due to preparation delays. The three countries – Uganda, Kenya and Tanzania were the hosts under a unity bid dubbed ‘Pamoja’. For the first time we turned out in numbers to watch our homegrown talent Harambee Stars carry our national flag high. The last time Kenyan hosted such a tournament was in 1987, so yes —we had every reason to be out in numbers and support cum protect the game 38 years later!

Truth be told, I am not much of a football fan if supporting premier league matches is one of the indicators to go by. I say this out of respect and love for the diehards especially go to depths to catch their favourite football clubs play every season. I once tried to gravitate into becoming a Liverpool FC (LFC) fan – mainly because I then owned a LFC jersey (don’t ask me how I got it) – but also because there were lots of hype about two sons of the continent soil – Sadio Mane (Senegalese) and Mo Salah (Egyptian) – who were shaking football airwaves in Europe as key LFC players at the time. That aside, my then employer had this staff football fixtures every Friday evening. The idea behind it was to strengthen teamwork and boost our physical wellness after a rather rigorous week of dealing with clients, trying to close sales leads and implementing construction related projects in often remote or tough locations under tight budgets. I would unfortunately exit the company a year later and didn’t quite follow any football related topics, except for a World Cup tournament which took place somewhere in between (Qatar 2022). I have always been enthusiastic about the World Cup since childhood and in later years Africa’s continental football tournaments i.e. Africa Cup of Nations (AFCON) and CHAN. I like nation’s competitions because they allow me to easily identify the team (s) to root for. It’s easier to decide who to go with when my home country is contesting as was the case in the 2024 CHAN tournament where Kenya was a co-host. Patriotism prevails in such cases. But when my country is not on the list, I naturally incline to a few countries – either because of a belief of certain shared ideals, or historical excellence in tournament football. Growing up, I would hear names of superstars such as Kanu (Nigeria), Okocha (Nigeria), Pelé (Brazil), Zidane (France), Maradona (Argentina) and Ronaldo (Brazil). Hence by default, I inclined to being a fan of their country teams from a tender age. The preference has somewhat lived on to date. I have equally developed a liking for Bafana Bafana following South Africa’s hosting of the 2010 World Cup – this was the first time ever for an African nation to host the event. Given football is the most popular sport globally, you can imagine the crowd it attracts.  I also have pieces of memory from the 2018 World Cup tournament hosted by Russia where Croatia brought on a spectacular presentation proving that the so-called underdogs can be a force to reckon.

The 2025 festive season was an incredibly entertaining period. Having ‘successfully watched’ most of the 48 games played at the ongoing AFCON 2025 tournament, and with only 4 remaining to officially wrap up the 52-match continental event, I look back at what has been. There were moments of immense tension or high pressure, anxiety, injuries, physical, tactical and technical display of talent on pitch. Some traditionally renowned power houses, including the defending giant, have already been eliminated making predictions as to whose tournament this edition is even more difficult. The infamous Video Assistant Referees have made both good and bad decisions creating room for deserved rewards and premium tears at the same time. Infrastructurally, Morocco’s six cities of Rabat, Casablanca, Agadir, Fes, Marrakesh and Tangier where the tournament games have been held did not disappoint.

Unlike the CHAN tournament which brings local-based league players from within participant countries, AFCON combines local and international professional players – which means these would be the highest stage to meet Africa’s elite footballers some of whom play in prestigious leagues abroad – e.g. English League, La Liga and Bundesliga. The pressure to represent their nations well is always very high as nobody wants to let their citizens down.  And with that kind of performance pressure; these starts have made the tournament’s 4,680+ hours of football such a thriller drama show. Players aside, the 12th man has been showing up in numbers to enrich the experience. And one such fan was Democratic Republic of Congo’s human statue Michel Kuka Mboladinga who brought on memories of the nation’s first prime minister Patrice Lumumba at every game that DRC played. Kuka stood on a small pedestal at a statue position all through the 90 + minutes of all the 4 games played by DRC team. Unfortunately, his gesture was cut short in a last-minute goal concession during Congo’s knockout game against Algeria.

With just 4 teams – Morocco, Nigeria, Senegal and Egypt left in the race to the semi-finals this Wednesday 14th January 2026, the battle and drama can only get more complicated as each country puts their best foot forward in the hopes of emerging victorious through to the final battle on Sunday, 18th January.

But before the finale drama,

Here are a few lessons worth reminding as the tournament edges to an end:

  1. Never allow your opponents to get comfortable in your backyard, you get punished for it.
  2. Maintain tactical discipline throughout your pursuits, an early lead doesn’t always guarantee a final win.
  3. Time management is of the essence, and every second counts. Do everything possible to avoid last minute surprises – this may entail creating unnecessary excuses.
  4. Avoid exposing yourself to situations that give your opponent an upper hand. But if you find yourself in such situations, keep the hope alive that you can still carry the day —- but double effort might be required.
  5. Higher possession doesn’t always translate to the last laugh. What you do with the few chances that you have is more important.
  6. When things are not working out as planned, don’t wait until it is too late to make the necessary fixes.
  7. Always keep your impact actors ready to become your last arsenal.
  8. The game will not always be fair as man is to error. Keep that in mind to avoid anger which can lead to further damage.
  9. Do not be a sore loser, when defeated accept the outcome and move on. Of importance is to take the valuable lessons learnt to avoid future mistakes.
  10. Teamwork takes the team far, but individual talent can get you top of the scoreboard. Combine both to ascent further.
  11. Do not allow yourself to be exposed because of a banter gone very wrong. Respect your opponents and their fans, regardless of who wins.
  12. It’s not over until it is over, push and keep pushing until the final whistle.

Be sure to keep an eye out for the 2026 World Cup co-hosted by Mexico, Canada and the USA beginning June 11th to July 19th.  That’s right! We are 150 days away from yet another intriguing learning season. Tik Tok!

Until the next inter-nations grand football party, happy moments enjoying upcoming tournaments near you.

January 11, 2026 0 comment
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Another Gratitude Season – 1

by wakinyi September 13, 2025
written by wakinyi

This September we take a look down memory lane, to reflect on what a journey it has been. I have said this before and will say it again – when you take time to count your blessings, you will be surprised how full your cup is. The song written hundreds of years back on the same is true to the latter.
Below and next series of posts will provide a summary of lessons learnt through an entire gratitude season. I have probably already mentioned some of them in the past – sorry for the repetition! Hope this long list can be a source of inspiration to anyone reading it!

Season 1

1: Born for a reason
That you were born for such a time like this is a blessing. Be grateful for it! Don’t yonder in the why, how, to whom…all that is in the past. Live in the today and face tomorrow one step at a time when it comes.

2: Be ready for the inevitable
We do not know the hour or time, learn to be ready for anything anytime. And be grateful no matter what.

3: Past memories count
You might not always remember what it was like growing up because you were too young then. That doesn’t mean the moments were not as important. Everything was crafted to fit perfectly like a jigsaw puzzle. Be grateful!

4: Childhood adventures are priceless
As a parent or guardian, don’t take that away from children the opportunity to experience adventures. It might not matter now; it certainly will in future. Create time and be grateful for such experiences!

5: There is always a first time for everything
Nobody is born knowing it all. There will always be many first occasions throughout our lifetime. Some are scary or not – regardless, face each first as it comes full of confidence. And be grateful if it goes well or not, you are learning!

 

6: Cheating for small wins can happen
But it should not define the rest of your steps. Be a person of integrity and strong character. It helps to keep you grounded in doing the right thing. Be grateful for your principles and self-discipline and how they have shaped who you are today.

7: Some years will certainly feel empty
You may not recall some details for certain years, don’t beat yourself too hard that you don’t. It’s normal that some pages at the start of a book are intentionally left blank. So don’t strain trying to fill missing storylines. But be grateful for what you remember!

Until the next post, happy reflection on some of your key learning points over the years. 

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Lessons across borders

by wakinyi March 29, 2024
written by wakinyi

This post has been inspired by a colleague – who suggested I should write something about a recent experience. You know yourself! Thanks for the inspiration.

Earlier this month, I travelled across the border. In my earlier adulting life —I have done a few bus travels from Nairobi to Kampala. However, most of this occurred at night so I barely grasped the beauty that is the better part of this ‘Pearl of Africa’ nation. I think our neighbours are lucky that a bigger chunk of their land is what you would consider fertile, if the scenery between Kampala and Northwestern city of Arua is anything to go by – this is where my recent trip took me – a nearly 9-hour road travel. It was conspicuous to note how ‘popular’ the jackfruit plant dots the terrain, when you barely get a glimpse of that in my home country. Or maybe I haven’t traversed Kenya enough to find out, at least not the visible presence along a highway. I also caught an amazing view of the Nile River, which is the longest river in Africa at 6,600km. The view was just a few kilometres after our drive through the serene Murchinson falls national park.  The park boasts of thousands of wildlife species. But what caught my attention is the extensive cover of the borassus palm trees. I am still curious to find out if it is exploited for commercial reasons considering the vegetation is naturally occurring in a park. 

Here are a few things I learnt during the Ugandan excursion that might be worth a read:

  1. Woodlot establishment culture. Prior to the trip, I had heard about woodlots but didn’t exactly know what it means. If you were clueless like me, it is basically the growing of trees and I dare say sustainable foresting for purposes of meeting everyday wood and charcoal needs. It is common knowledge that biomass is the primary source of energy in sub–Saharan African countries. Even as we talk about measures of afforestation, improved cookstove technologies and alternative cooking fuels to address energy needs and climate change wrath, we still have a long way to go. Hence, I think initiatives that strive to establish woodlots was a big take home, especially the teak tree species which is a rather drought resistant hardwood tree that does quite well in Northern Uganda. I have barely seen it in Kenya and thought it could be an interesting species to test in our dry regions.
  2. Volcanic rock stoves are a thing! In one of my discussions with a colleague, he mentioned something he had recently learnt – imagine using rocks as a source of heating fuel. That’s right! Although this is yet to gain momentum, largely due to the cost limitation. It is an alternative energy solution already in use in Uganda. I was curious to understand the lifespan of the rocks and was advised that they can be used for about 2 years before replacement. Imagine buying that and forgetting about refills or restock for another 2 years – as is typical of LPG and biofuels like charcoal and wood often used in our homes. How cool is that! I never got the chance to see for myself how the stove works, but it was an incredible lesson to reflect on. I hope to catch the stove in use someday. Or who knows, graduate to become a user.
  3. Innovation hubs at the heart of the community are the way to go in fostering user-centric solutions to prevalent challenges. We had the opportunity to visit the MIT-Kulika D-lab at the Rhino camp settlement in Arua. Although I did not get the opportunity to fully immerse in the centre’s innovations, my glance at the available tools and equipment, and projects under incubation or completed by the group of youths was enough to tell it all.
  4. Open door policy – does it work? An open-door policy is a leadership model that encourages accessibility. Uganda is one of the few countries that apply an open-door policy for inclusion of refugees and asylum seekers. But how easy is it in practise? For example, when it comes to matters national security, no country wants to keep her borders porous. An open-door policy can easily be faulted as a high security risk. So how exactly do our neighbours make it work? In my exchanges with various Ugandan policy makers and enforcement agencies, I learnt that it is indeed possible to apply it. However, this also comes with points of overlap and challenges in practise, particularly in administrative functions, resource access and statutory provisions. But like any progressive policy instrument, there are always challenges that must be grappled with.
  5. A story of resilience and hope for a better tomorrow. As is often said, everybody has a story to tell. And nobody can tell your story better than you. While it is hard to tell an emotionally difficult story, it is equally as hard sitting through such a story without break apart. I was particularly touched by the story of an enterprising carpenter who runs a small enterprise under a tree. He refers to it as ‘reju reju‘ which in English translates to resilience. Now a gradually aging man, he uses his skills to educate the next generation of carpenters and youths, with hope that he will one day set up a big training facility to offer a fully-fledged vocational training centre to his community. With the few resources available for him amidst the harsh challenges he faces on a daily basis, he defies odds to make ends meet. Due to the strenuous nature of transporting raw materials from the main trading centres, he is gradually developing a shoulder and back-ache – but that does not stop him from soldiering on. He is optimistic that one day the road accessibility will offer a better transport network – so that he doesn’t have to strain by using his small motorcycle to transport bulky materials. Over the years, I have found myself internally battling with questions such as, why does God allow some people to go through relatively more difficult seasons than others? Why can’t we all have the same rights, resources, tranquillity, health, wellbeing, you name it. Are we doing enough to make the world a better place for all of us? Will we ever solve the global stresses? Are we even on the right trajectory to solve it all?

I am always grateful to get opportunities to interact with people who are facing odds and thriving in extremely difficult environments. They inspire hope – a hope of a better tomorrow – one where everyone has the means and tools to elevate themselves. Whether we will ever reach that kind of a society is a question that only time can answer.  As we enjoy the Easter holiday – for those of us who mark it, let us remember to extend a ray of hope to those seeking refuge around us. It is the least we can do, considering that the greatest sacrifice was offered for our sake many centuries ago.

 

Until the next post, happy Easter holidays!

 

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GIFTING

by wakinyi January 20, 2024
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I visited a long-time mentor a few days back. It had been a while, so I was a bit worried over what to bring. The worry was partly because this mentor has always showed up with a gift for the few or many times we have interacted over the years. I felt it would be completely uncourteous of me to have nothing. I think embracing a culture of gifting is something we must be deliberate about and practise it over time. Just like giving, if you do not do it as often, or if you assume that you belong in the category of have nots and therefore should not be expected to give, that mentality will live on with you. And when your cup starts overflowing, you will still find it difficult to give because it is not a habit which already exists in you. I have always been vocal about giving and how it is not a preserve of specific people, feel free to check out my previous posts on the topic.

Deciding on what to gift can be difficult, especially where not sure of the taste and preference of your host. In fact, some people generally advise to gift cash tokens or gift vouchers which is not something I fully ascribe to, but I don’t it mind either provided the host prefers the same. I prefer spending time and finding a meaningful gift rather than cash unless the occasion calls for it. Finding a thoughtful physical item to present or a thoughtful card with a beautiful message would probably be the way to go for me. I like to see gifts as memory pieces. A few years back a friend gifted me a water bottle and it was one of the most thoughtful gifts I have received in a while – okay maybe I don’t receive gifts that often so don’t be quick to wonder. I love it because it reminds me of her wherever I go. I try to use it as often as I can. In general, I try to use or keep items presented to me as a gift for as long as they can last. I see them as a treasure that must forever last. Maybe it is a weakness, I don’t know. That’s just who I am.

As I was not too sure what to gift my host, I decided to drop by another mentor’s shop round the block. She runs a gift shop. I knew I wouldn’t go wrong by visiting an expert in matters gifting. I had limited time to get something thoughtful enough. One of the questions this expert asked me was whether I had anything particular in mind. No, I was clueless, all I knew was that I was looking for something thoughtful. In fact, I visited her shop hoping she would sort out my limbo situation. We had a brief conversation which also provided insights on the art of gifting. I left the shop a few minutes late but feeling better as a person. I was more enlightened on how to go about gifting in readiness for when the next occasion arises.

Here are a few tips worth reminding:

  1. Gifting does not have to be a struggle; it is the thought that counts. As easy as it may sound, we often find ourselves struggling with what to get our loved ones, colleagues, or guests. If you must know, I ended up settling for a very simple gift, but thoughtful, or so I felt. In part, it spoke to my persona and the things that matter to me, which I wish to share with others. Sometimes we simply need to create a story behind whatever it is we are gifting in such a way that it rings a bell. It is also advisable to avoid going too much into taste specific items unless very sure of what your host would like. The only times I have not struggled to get gifts is when visiting my parents and guardians because I know what they would prefer or need. The rest of the time it is always a gamble.
  2. Gifting does not have to be expensive. I think this is important especially when choosing a gift for a host or people that potentially have ‘everything they need’. You can be left unsure of what would work for them. In the past I have avoided gifting the so termed ‘have it all society members’ for fear that I might gift something either too cheap or unnecessary. If you must know, the gift I ended up buying costed half the budget. So don’t sweat it trying to get something expensive, especially if you cannot afford it. Try find something simple but authentic as best works for your pocket. It will do the magic.
  3. Think of a gift as a memory masterpiece. With that, best is to select something the recipient can see every other day. It can be kept tiny to ensure it is not another extra clutter add into somebody’s space. If you think about it this way, you will realize that you may not have to struggle too much getting a token piece that simply reminds the recipient of the impact they have made in your life which is often what lifetime mentors do. There was a point in time when I was crazy about assorted travel fridge magnets. It’s an interest borrowed from a friend during by graduate school years. So, for those who travel often, there you have it. A gift might be as simple as something grabbed from a souvenir shop for less than 10 bucks. Again, this depends on the recipient so a bit of knowledge on to whom the gift is intended matters.
  4. You can never go wrong with a fresh pot plant. Maybe I am saying this as the self-acclaimed lover of plants. But I did realize that a well thought plant species is a good piece of gift. In general, most homes and spaces are shifting to green spaces. So, depending on where you are, it could be a gift worth considering if visiting a home. Have it nicely decorated, and you are good to go!
  5. A basket of fresh fruits is still a thing. That’s right! As you know, an apple a day keeps the doctor away. If you have time and can get quality assorted fruits, especially for those who live in the urban areas, that works. Just don’t overbuy because it can be overwhelming especially if you do not have background knowledge on whether your host likes fruits or not. Strangely, there are people who do not like fruits that much. I wonder how. But it is what it is, we must respect preferences.
  6. Is a bottle of wine a good idea? What I learned is that it is disrespectful to assume your host takes wine just because you do. This applies to any other alcoholic drink. Unless you know your host well enough, avoid.  You might be tempted to try it because we see it on TV shows more often and imagine it is the norm. For close friends it might be worth the dare, because you spend time together and know what works each other. The same cannot be said otherwise, plus age is also an important factor to consider here. Don’t pull this card if visiting older mentors and the likes. Again, respect of our diversity and cultural preferences is important – we cannot all be the same, but we do have qualities that bring us together.

Until the next post, happy gifting!

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